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Last week<\/a> I shared with you the idea of provisional living and touched a little on the bubble of the myth of constant and inevitable progress. In writing, we\u2019re always making choices. We\u2019re constantly selecting one word or phrase over another, crafting images and stories that will resonate with our chosen audience and choosing when to pause or stop a narrative and leave the rest to our readers.<\/p>\n

\"no<\/a>An aphorism that I\u2019ve tried to live by for the past decade or so is \u201cThere are no answers, only choices\u201d and I\u2019d like to share that today in the spirit of exploring how to live inside of and create from a position of values in what feels like an aggressive, shallow and purely commercial world. I will disclose at the outset that I have a day job. I pay my way in the world from the position of a cubicle in which I write for my corporate overlords. I chose to get (and keep) this job and bear the consequences of that choice. One of those consequences is that I do not have the bo-ho credibility of \u2018living off my art\u2019. I don\u2019t see it that way, but you might. My skills in communicating with people (and translating between people who speak the same language but can\u2019t understand each other) make me useful in a business environment. It is no mean feat to remain useful, relevant and employed these days, but that\u2019s not the most interesting choice to talk about.<\/p>\n

Instead, let\u2019s think about giving up the emotional and psychological payoffs that come from the behaviour of provisional living. In place of daydreaming about what life might be like \u2018when I win lotto\u2019 there were questions that started with \u2018What is wealth?\u2019 and \u2018What do I think of as freedom?\u2019 and lead to \u2018What if I already have enough?\u2019<\/p>\n

Money wasn\u2019t the only topic that came under review. Relationships of all kinds, working, debt, health, writing, travel, relaxation. In some ways nearly everything had become infected with an expectation that it would just get better by itself (thanks Progress!) or that eventually a day would dawn where I would be handed a golden answer. To *everything*.<\/p>\n

While I lay on the couch, watching the sun pass across the ceiling and really getting it that the golden answer wouldn\u2019t come, I started to play a game of \u2018what if?\u2019 Maybe you\u2019d like to play it too?<\/p>\n

What if I already have enough?<\/p>\n

What if every life really is sacred?<\/p>\n

What if I could help someone every day, just in the course of my normal life?<\/p>\n

What if there are no unsacred places?<\/p>\n

What if my purpose is simply to love and be loved in return?<\/p>\n

What choices would I make if these things were true? What would I chose to live by \u2013 if I could chose anything? How would I be in my life if I sought out ways to bring my choices to life? Would I select different experiences, people, priorities?<\/p>\n

What would you do if you turned out to be responsible for your life and your choices without recourse to any wish for it to be different than it is right now?<\/p>\n

It is what it is. Then what?<\/p>\n

One little thing at a time, you make choices.<\/p>\n

For stuff, I decided that one thing in meant one thing had to go out. That tiny choice created a cascade of implications and considerations, not least was creating a kind of mindfulness about quality, emotional shopping, waste, recycling and boredom. So many choices we make without thinking. There are no answers about how much stuff is right, or which stuff is better or why stuff is such an obsession. There are no answers about why, or when, or who. I just made that one choice that felt right in my situation, and I committed to living by it and within the consequences it produced.<\/p>\n

It took some time, but inside that choice came a new type of freedom.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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